Think like a scientist, not a preacher, prosecutor, or politician
Grant identifies four mental modes people default to when discussing beliefs: the preacher, who defends sacred convictions; the prosecutor, who marshals evidence to prove others wrong; the politician, who seeks approval by telling audiences what they want to hear; and the scientist, who treats their own view as a hypothesis to be tested, not a position to be defended.
He argues most of us slip into preacher, prosecutor, or politician mode without noticing, especially on topics tied to identity, because those modes protect our ego in the short term even as they degrade our judgment. The scientist mode feels less emotionally satisfying — you might be shown wrong — but it produces far better long-run decisions because it treats being wrong as useful data rather than a personal defeat.
Grant's own research and consulting work repeatedly shows that people and organizations that actively seek disconfirming evidence outperform those that seek only validation. The upgrade isn't thinking harder — it's thinking like someone actively trying to find out if they're wrong.